Communication that blocks compassion: moralistic judgments
Today is Day 4 of the non violent communication podcast, and we’re talking about communication that blocks compassion. Specifically, about moralistic judgments. This is part of my self-created 21-day exploration of non violent communication.
Day 1 is here if you want to start from the beginning. If you’d like an entire list of the podcast episodes, or to subscribe via iTunes, visit my page on non violent communication.
This is a point in the book where I always struggle a bit. I’ll give you a couple of very specific examples of moralistic judgments that occur to me, and why these can be hugely problematic when used. Hope you’ll listen… the episode is just short of 7 1/2 minutes.
You can listen below or right click the following link and then choose “save link as” to download it: Â download
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about 1 year ago
Hi Liz,
I’m really enjoying your podcast discussions based on Marshall Rosenberg’s NVC book. This podcast particularly touched me as a homeschooling mom. I have been struggling with my own internal moralistic judgment that I’m not good enough to be a teacher, mother, friend, etc. to my daughter because I don’t have a background in early childhood education. It is definitely reinforcing my fears instead of helping me break free, stop resisting, and enjoy the flow of our homeschooling life. This podcast is helping to remind me that I will keep backing myself into a corner if I don’t allow myself to feel my fear so I can move through it. And in general your podcasts are helping both my husband and I reconnect with our desire to learn more about NVC (we’ve taken quite a few workshops and I even attended an NVC empathy group at one point) and use it in our every day lives. Thank you!
about 1 year ago
Thank you so much for these lovely words… you made my day. I am so delighted to know that you are listening AND that it is actually helpful.
As a little side note, I have so much respect for you being able to be a homeschooling mom. It is clear that you care deeply about your daughter, and that is what will make this a success for you and your family. All the education in the world cannot take the place of the caring that is so strong within you.
Thanks again, from the bottom of my heart, and I look forward to hearing more about your homeschooling experiences (and NVC experience) if you are ready to share!